http://mamapundit.com/2009/02/talking-about-it/ motherhood, and all the rest of it. Thu, 29 Jul 2010 18:51:28 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 http://mamapundit.com/2009/02/talking-about-it/#comment-276 Deborah Turner Wed, 18 Feb 2009 14:25:27 +0000 http://mamapundit.com/?p=410#comment-276 It's the pain. Miscarriage is very painful. You tell of your excitement, then you go through the pain - physical, emotional, tearing pain - and then you have everyone asking how your pregnancy is going and you have to relive the pain, over and over. People don't want to tell you their happy news because of your own loss... it's better just not to tell. It's shocking to see you say so flippantly, "If I had a miscarriage I'd tell you too!" You obviously don't have a clue as to the realty of this subject. It’s the pain. Miscarriage is very painful. You tell of your excitement, then you go through the pain – physical, emotional, tearing pain – and then you have everyone asking how your pregnancy is going and you have to relive the pain, over and over. People don’t want to tell you their happy news because of your own loss… it’s better just not to tell. It’s shocking to see you say so flippantly, “If I had a miscarriage I’d tell you too!” You obviously don’t have a clue as to the realty of this subject.

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