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Oct 072010
 

Henry and his Aunt Betsy, Great Smoky Mountains National Park

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I love so much the beautiful essay that dear Serge Bielanko wrote about my Henry today. I will treasure it always.

A snippet:

A Tennessee kid would have turned nineteen today. I never met him but I feel like I did. I’ve stared at him in pictures, his handsome face framed by a shock of thick dark hair, his thin frame usually wrapped up around his acoustic. He was the son of someone me and my wife met recently, someone who we like a lot. I cannot begin to understand her loss. No one can unless you’ve been there. Here’s hoping you haven’t.

Still, when I hear the tales of young men dying I think of that river somewhere way out there beyond the known sky. After the great big storm cloud of life melts away, after the whizzing bullets and the hydroplaning muscle cars and the dirty needles and the fistfights and the pills and the shitty cancers and leukemias and the bedroom nooses, all of it, after all of that slips away on the edge of a crisp afternoon breeze, what is left is this:

A young guy walking downstream, uncertainty in his gleaming eyes, headed right into the gaze of a kid who came before him. A good kid who’s been waiting to show a newbie around.

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For Henry. We’ll play guitars someday.

Thank you Serge. xoxo

Oct 062010
 

Please take a moment and go cast your vote for my friend John Cave Osborne’s (hilarious! Ashton Kutcher even tweeted it!) video of his evening managing toddler triplets solo while his wife went out with friends. If his video gets the most votes, he will be donating the entire $2,000 prize to ChildHelp USA. So please go vote! Thanks :-) – Katie

Oct 052010
 

…. go visit Serge and Monica and find out what sort of wee human they will be welcoming to their insanely attractive family unit come February.

CONGRATS Bielankos!

 

Sometimes – actually lot in the past week or two – I have this feeling that this has all been a prolonged, not so funny joke (after all, Henry really loved to pull pranks). A few times – when I am alone at home, or everyone else is already asleep and I’m doing laundry or something – I have actually found myself saying out loud, “Okay sweetie, you can come out now.”

And then, for just a moment, I expect him to peek out from behind the drapes or pop up from the back side of a chair – with that sweet, mischevious grin of his lighting up the room.

Always, always, he could make my day with one of those smiles.

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(If you can, go offer some support to another mama who is struggling to parent a beloved firstborn child who is struggling himself)

 

My friend Ayun, who started the whole Henry travel photo project to begin with, just sent me two new AWESOME pix ffor Henry from her neck o’ the woods. Ayun is a terrific writer, indie ‘zinester & actress, and she’s married to Tony-winning playwright Greg Kotis.  Plus, they have two supercute kids.  Their daughter India wrote me one of the loveliest, most thoughtful condolence notes I received after Henry died. Ayun and Greg are among the most fascinating and creative couples working in the arts today (and as you can see, even the New York Times agrees) Plus, they are just Good Peoples.

Here’s what Ayun wrote me about these two new photos for Henry.

Every time I pass this location (frequently – my favorite Chinatown 99cent store is downstairs from this temple) I want to take a photo for you. So last time, I did, and only wish that I was a better photographer, or a bolder one. A Buddhist nun (lay person … as close to monk status as a lady can get) came out and was very curious as to why I was kneeling next to their incense burner – almost as curious as I was with regard to the wilting cabbages spread atop the guard rail on which I was balanced. A language barrier prohibited either of us from explaining. Anyway, this is looking south to the Manhattan Bridge from the intersection of Pike and East Broadway, one floor above street level, and from what you’ve shared about Henry’s sense of humor, I think he would’ve dug some of the wares downstairs at the incomparably named BJ99 – where I once bought a small notepad featuring an unlicensed Barbie, under the legend I Ate You.

Beautiful fall.

xo Ayun



henry manhattan bridge

kuan yin _ henry street

(You can see all of the incredible photos taken all over the planet (really!)  for my son, Henry Louis Granju since his death on May 31, 2010 right HERE and HERE. The wonderful photo project was started by my friend Ayun Halliday, a fellow mama and writer. Every time I get an email with a new photo, I get really excited. It’s like opening a gift for my son. Receiving a new photo makes the day for me. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. These photos are treasures that will be passed down as heirlooms in our family. )

 

Huge thanks to the sweet and very talented K. Emily Bond, who took this photo for Henry in Spain, where she lives with her rather beautiful family these days. Here’s what Emily wrote about the photo.

I took Henry along with me to see La Macarena make a rare pilgrimage across the Guadalquivir for the beautification of a saint, whose name escapes me. I’m told she’s a very important historic figure in Seville, as evidenced by the fact that the Virgen (heralded by her cult-like following as the most beautiful in the city) was taken out. She only leaves her basilica on the Madrugada, Good Friday during Holy Week. As you can tell from this video taking her out for a spin is a laborious process and my battery died before I could photograph the occasion.

Nevertheless, I did capture this shot while waiting on the banks of the Guadalquivir, the river Columbus sailed on his way back from “discovering” the New World. Magellan also sailed it in 1519 on his way to circumnavigate the globe proving once and for all that it is, indeed, round.

Not sure if Henry got the chance to see “the great river” but he was certainly there in our thoughts last evening.

Thank you so much Emily. This is absolutely gorgeous. And I loved getting to talk to you this week :-)

Henry Travel Spain

(You can see all of the incredible photos taken all over the planet (really!)  for my son, Henry Louis Granju since his death on May 31, 2010 right HERE and HERE. The wonderful photo project was started by my friend Ayun Halliday, a fellow mama and writer. Every time I get an email with a new photo, I get really excited. It’s like opening a gift for my son. Receiving a new photo makes the day for me. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. These photos are treasures that will be passed down as heirlooms in our family. )


 

Henry - At the top of Hurrah Pass, Moab  (via @dooce & @blurb)

Gorgeous. Absolutely gorgeous.

Thanks to @dooce & @blurb. xoxox – Katie

You can see more of Henry’s Travel Photos RIGHT HERE and also RIGHT HERE.

 

Whether you love pit bulls or think the breed should be banned, you will want to check out this brand new film from a Knoxville filmmaker that explores this extremely hot controversy in a whole new light.

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